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Amina Rafique talks about doing international humanitarian work

My story...

What does humanitarian work involve?
Humanitarian work is rewarding because it really means that you are helping, changing and transforming people’s lives. It has different facets - you could be working in the field in conflict and post conflict countries, helping refugees re-build their lives, or helping people affected by HIV and AIDS to get access to treatment, education and security.

Where did you grow up and go to school?
I grew up in London, and I went to a normal comprehensive school called Sydenham Girls School. I enjoyed school a lot and knew that I had to work hard in order to realise my ambitions later on in life. My favourite subject was history. History shapes what happens today and gives us an insight into why the world is shaped the way it is.

Have you faced any barriers or challenges in pursuing your dreams?
I think as an Asian Muslim girl - wanting to go overseas into dangerous countries that have just come out of war or currently going through war would be daunting and scary for any parent, let alone an Asian parent. However I was faced with the additional barrier that girls don't leave home until they are married. But I was so passionate about the line of work I wanted to get into I think I convinced my family that this was my path. My parents were not so happy for me to leave, but with much convincing and explaining that this was for a good cause, I managed to get them to understand that not all Muslim girls have to seek the usual roles expected from them (ie doctors, lawyers, etc).
Friends were encouraging and happy for me, but my family were very scared to lose me overseas. It was hard to deal with this at first, but constant reassurance from my part helped them deal with me seeking a future abroad.

What are your ambitions for the future?
I would like to work for a non-governmental organisation that specialises in working with children from disadvantaged backgrounds. UNICEF is one agency I would like to hopefully work for. I would also like to work with the Muslim community in London - raising the profile of young bright Muslims - give them a voice and a platform to achieve their educational and professional dreams. I have been working on a young European Muslim peacemakers programme which was held in Switzerland this year - to encourage young Muslims to become peacemakers in their home countries.

What advice would you give to Muslim girls thinking about their futures?
Never to think culture, religion and gender is a barrier to your dreams and aspirations. Everything is possible if you believe and have passion for what you want to do. The challenge isn’t as big as you think.